It’s interesting to read your insight and the LEAP method. However, it’s very difficult to put into practice when you add in all the complicating factors, such as a very broken system that is incapable of handling a loved one’s complexities with urgency. I’ve seen it fail my mother and brother.
Yes the system does not move on a dime here in California either. And when someone lacks insight it's very very difficult to get them care here. I find people are better able to accept and even forgive their loved one when they understand that they aren't just being stubborn or in denial but actually are living with a symptom of their illness. It's easier to be compassionate when you realize they are at the mercy of their illness and not just doing things because they want to be difficult. It doesn't mean you let them come live with you for example if they've been violent but it does make it easier in my experience to say make and keep boundaries.
Your clear and concise explanation of this little-understood condition is most appreciated!
Thanks so much Sue. Glad you found it helpful.
It’s interesting to read your insight and the LEAP method. However, it’s very difficult to put into practice when you add in all the complicating factors, such as a very broken system that is incapable of handling a loved one’s complexities with urgency. I’ve seen it fail my mother and brother.
Yes the system does not move on a dime here in California either. And when someone lacks insight it's very very difficult to get them care here. I find people are better able to accept and even forgive their loved one when they understand that they aren't just being stubborn or in denial but actually are living with a symptom of their illness. It's easier to be compassionate when you realize they are at the mercy of their illness and not just doing things because they want to be difficult. It doesn't mean you let them come live with you for example if they've been violent but it does make it easier in my experience to say make and keep boundaries.